I always wonder about celebrities and the differences
between their public persona and reality. I had the opportunity to find out for
myself over Easter weekend when my family traveled to New York City.
To explain, let me share a bit of our story. In 2002, our
youngest son, Nathan Griffin, was diagnosed with alveolar rhabdomyosarcoma.
This is a very aggressive and very rare soft tissue cancer. Nathan had just
turned a year old when we was diagnosed. He spent the second year of his life
in and out of hospitals, fighting for his life through surgeries, chemotherapy,
and radiation.
Over the last 14 ½ years, he has undergone additional
surgeries and dealt with the side effects of so much therapy at such a young
age. Last year, I was called by the mother of a boy who we met all those years
ago and she told us that she had nominated Nathan for a wish through
Make-A-Wish. Make-A-Wish is an organization that grants wishes to children who
are battling or are battling a life threatening illness. Nathan could not get a
wish when he was going through chemotherapy because of his age, but he did
qualify last year as a survivor.
Nathan’s wish was to meet the cast of Saturday Night Live.
He had to be 16 before SNL would allow him to attend a show, so we waited and
were so excited when our wish granter, Dennis Baird, called us and said our
trip had been scheduled for April, 2017.
Over Easter weekend, Nathan, along with David, myself, and
two of our other children, Rene and Tony, were flown to New York City to see a
live taping of SNL. We felt so special when the limo pulled up to take us to
the studio. After the show, we got a backstage tour and then almost the entire
cast came out to give Nathan hugs, talk about theater (he is a big-time theater
kid!), and sign the cue card from the cold open that says “Live from New York,
it’s Saturday Night!”. We were all amazed and a bit in shock. Next, one of the
producers told us there was one more person who wanted to meet Nathan. Nathan’s
biggest dream came true when Jimmy Fallon (who hosted the show) came out of his
dressing room, along with Harry Styles (the musical guest). All of the
celebrities who visited with Nathan were so down-to-earth, friendly, and truly
interested in him. Jimmy spent a long time with Nathan, teaching him his
signature moves and learning Nathan’s from him.
It was a magical evening as part of a beautiful weekend that
was all planned and paid for by generous folks who donate their time and money
to Make-A-Wish. The organization does wonderful things for children who have
had to deal with so much more in their young lives than they ever should have.
We are forever changed by the experience.
If you are looking for a way to make a difference in the life of a child, consider donating your time and/or money to Make-a-Wish!